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Subject:		Hello Zingzong
Name:		survivor
Date Posted:		May 1, 08 - 10:35 AM
Message:		I'm sorry you keep getting responded to in a way that isn't really helpful and quite hurtful. You don't deserve that. I'm concerned about you Zingzong and have been for awhile. I worry about how much you take on and I worry that your forgetting you amongst the fight. You know I have nothing but respect for your continuing fight for whats right. I can hear how important it is for you and your son and for other people. I also hear how much it is about you as a child too and it feels to me that is one of the biggest driving forces behind what you do. That could be missed and responded to in the way some people have and do. I wonder if there is a way you could keep doing what you do but somehow protect you and that vulnerable part of you. I think it might help a little. I also think it's important you try to hold onto people that respond in a way that is full of emotion is usually about themselves and are unable to hold whatever has been triggered for them. You don't need to hold that, it's not yours. It hurts though I know. Lets face it your only human and I hope your taking good care today. In the group I went to there was a lot of talk about 'normal' and what is it? and a therapists response was 'a point of refernce'. Somewhere you need to beable to go back to but not one to cling to. I don't believe anyone is normal because we would all be the same. Talking the same, thinking the same, behaving the same. It would be awful. You be you Zingzong and anyone who doesn't like you or what you do and say, throw it away and keep those close that care because they are what is important in your world. Allow them to care, support and be constructive when it's needed. I do hope you keep going with the fight for whats right but I also hope you can protect that hurt part of yu safe, that is just as important, if not more so that the fight. Sending a safe gentle survivor
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Thanks survivor by Zingzong · May 1, 08 - 7:38 PM

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